12.24.2023

This article is inspired by Virginia (Custer) Wass, a long-time Bigfork reader of Reminisce. Virginia shared with me an interesting story about her friend, Nanci Zeine, and a greeting card Zeine has exchanged with friends for thirty-one years! And yes, the card just happens to be a Hallmark. I have chosen a few other heartwarming anecdotes spanning over one-hundred twenty-five years, that are perfect for the holidays.
Adoption of the Maule Children ~ 1897
In early March 1897, Minnie Maule, wife of Alex died leaving five children. The couple, both born in Michigan, had married and recently moved to Itasca County. Alex knew he could not provide adequate care for the children and asked if there were any community members who would like to adopt them.
A month later petitions were filed in the district court for the adoption of the four youngest. Alex wanted ten-year old Harvey to stay with him. The adoptions went through as follows:
~ William and Edith Goodchild, for Laura age six years
~ George and Mary Johnson, for Grace Belle, age four years
~ William and Matilda Gibbs, for Stanley Adelbert, age three years
~ James and Amelia Woodward for Andrew Buchanan, age sixteen months
Alex moved with his son, Harvey, to Port Hope, Beltrami County, where his brother’s family lived. The Johnsons, and the Gibbs resided in the Deer River area,
Grace Johnson may have been a teacher as she attended college for two years. In June 1915, when she was twenty-three, she married Harold Peck, a salesman from Shakopee, MN. They operated a dairy farm in rural Deer River where they raised two daughters, Patricia, and Virginia.
Stanley Gibbs was a businessman like his father and built up the wild rice operation started by William. He married Harriet Strom in 1915 and they raised their eight children, sons Stafford, William, Stanley, Gordon, Darrow, and Delano and two daughters, LaDonna and Ramona in Inger.
Missed the Titanic Disaster ~ 1912
RMS Titanic was a British passenger liner operated by the White Star Line. She sank in the North Atlantic Ocean on April 15, 1912, after striking an iceberg during her maiden voyage from Southampton, England, to New York City. Of the estimated 2,224 passengers and crew aboard, more than 1,500 died, making it the deadliest sinking of a single ship up to that time. It remains the deadliest peacetime sinking of an ocean liner or cruise ship. I have found two circumstances where individuals, who later settled in our community, had intended to be on the Titanic. Lucky for them, fate intervened.
But first, a bit of background information. Third class, also known as steerage, is the least expensive ticket on the Titanic. The cost per person was $35. The third class was occupied by 709 immigrants leaving Europe for America. In all there were four options for the passengers. Second class was $60, a first-class berth was $150, and the deluxe first-class suites were $4350.
It was believed that “A colony of Finlanders were coming to settle on land in the vicinity of Duluth probably perished on board the Titanic when she took her fatal plunge. The colony consisted of twenty-five families, in all 110 people. They were being brought here by a Finnish Colonization association.” [Unk Duluth paper 4-17-1912]
Miriam (Hokkanen) Payne shared this story about her father John Emil Hokkanen who at the age of twenty-five planned to immigrate to the United States in 1912. “He left Finland for Glasgow, Scotland and attempted to book passage on the Titanic but declined due to the cost. Taking another ship, he arrived at the Port of New York aboard the vessel Caledonia later in April 1912. He went to Brooklyn to the home of his sister Laina, who was his sponsor. What a surprise! She thought he had died on the Titanic. So isn’t it a blessing he didn’t book passage, I wouldn’t be here.” [interviewed by Elmer Mattila 9.16.1996] John married Hendrika “Henny” Rutanen in 1915 in St. Louis County and by 1920 they lived at Bass Lake. The couple raised four daughters.
Twenty-two-year-old Hilma Peltola had arrived from Finland too late to board the ill-fated Titanic. Her trunk had been shipped from Finland, placed on the Titanic, and was lost. She had her spinning wheel with her and departed from Liverpool aboard Empress of Britain and arrived in St. John, New Brunswick, Canada April 27, 1912. From there, Hilma made her way to her destination—Deer River. Four months later she married August Kuusela. Hilma and August had six daughters and a son.
Treasured Diamond Ring Recovered ~ 1935
Jewel Recovered After Long Time ~ 12-4-1935 Grand Rapids Herald-Review
“Mrs. F.M. [Pauline] Williams of Cutfoot Sioux now has her diamond ring valued at several hundred dollars which she lost last May. The ring was recovered in Minneapolis through cooperation on the part of Sheriff Elmer Madsen and the police authorities in Minneapolis.
When the ring disappeared last spring, authorities were not notified as Mrs. Williams believed she would be able to recover the jewel. However, as time passed and no trace of the ring was found, the authorities were called in. Sheriff Madsen was notified of the probable theft of the ring on November 21. Certain circumstances led him to believe that the young girl suspected of purloining the ring had gone to Minneapolis and he took up the trail in that city with good results. Saturday, he returned with the ring in his possession.
The young woman who had taken the ring had attempted to sell it in Minneapolis. She had received ten dollars and was promised an additional ten dollars which she had not yet collected. The suspect in the case confessed to Mr. Madsen of her part in the affair and found the pawnshop where she had disposed of the ring. This was the Smilow Loan Office on Washington Avenue. The office had no record of the ring but the young woman in the case, identified Tom Bailey, an employee at the Smilow Loan Office as the man to whom she disposed of the ring. Detectives in Minneapolis searched his apartment and found it to be crowded with all kinds of goods, jewelry, and apparel. Among the jewelry was the diamond ring that started the investigation.
Because of her youth and because this is apparently the first time she has been in any sort of trouble, authorities are withholding the name of the young woman who took the ring and later pawned it for a small sum. She will be placed on probation.”
An Enduring Anniversary Card
In 1993, Nanci Zeine sent a card to a good friend Kay and her husband Michael Aldridge, for their 11th anniversary, which was on December 23. The message on the front of the card read “Happy Anniversary to a Perfect Couple,” and the inside message read “And You Can Send This Back to Us If You Want.”
Nanci and Roger’s 19th anniversary was just a few days later, on December 28, so Kay found an envelope that fit the card, added an anniversary message of her own, and sent it to the Zeines.
That was the beginning of the enduring anniversary card. “And then we just kept going!” Zeine said. “We eventually ran out of places to write a personal note, so a few years ago, I inserted blank cardstock to the center of the card.” With a laugh, she added, “The only problem is that we are always looking for an envelope to send it in.” A few years ago, the card went missing on its way from Arlington’s to Zeine’s. Much to both couples’ relief, it arrived in Bigfork in mid-February.
An hour after Zeine relayed this to me, I stopped to visit a friend, and shared her extraordinary story. Much to my surprise, another guest in their home told me he and his wife had been exchanging a similar anniversary card with another couple for forty-one years!
I reached out to Hallmark in hopes of learning more about the …and you can send this back, type of card. I wondered if they had a line of such cards, encouraging it to be exchanged again, for anniversaries, birthdays, and maybe other holidays. I also enquired as to the number of years they had offered them, and if, as with this one, they were all printed on recycled paper.
I did not get a response, but of course learned a few facts about Joyce C. Hall, founder of Hallmark Cards, Inc. “Joyce Hall was born in 1891 in a small town in Nebraska. At the age of sixteen, he and two older brothers started a postcard company and eventually went to Kansas City, Missouri.
In 1923 they formed Hall Brothers, Inc., the predecessor of today’s Hallmark. Joyce wanted to replace Hall Brothers on the back of greeting cards with the phrase, “A Hallmark Card.” When others said advertising was a waste of money, he began creating and placing ads, and established Hallmark as the most recognizable brand name in the industry. In 1966, Joyce stepped aside as chief executive officer in favor of his son, Donald J. Hall. Currently, Joyce’s grandsons Donald J. Hall, Jr., and David E. Hall lead the company’s board of directors.
[https://corporate.hallmark.com/about/hallmark-cards-company/history]
I wonder if Hallmark considered how this type of card if it was sent back and forth might affect their sales. In the case of Zeine and her friends, they would have purchased sixty-one cards between them since 1994, but instead have only bought one!
Happy 41st anniversary to Kay and Michael (Dec 23) and to
Nanci and Roger on their 49th anniversary December 28
I am taking a short hiatus from writing the Reminisce column so that I can pursue other writing projects. Look for it in the early summer 2024. As always, archived columns are published every Sunday on my blog: chrismarcottewrites – An 1897 family ax murder brought out the writer in me








